what is the value of a 69 charger with original numbers?

It depends on the condition of the car, of course. According to Manheim Gold Book: Fair: 8,000 Good: 17,000 Excellent: 34,000 Show: 41,000

I have a 1969 Dodge Charger R/T SE, have had it for 7 years. The original block is in the garage and a 72 440 block is in the car now that I rebuilt. The car came with a 1970 Super Bee Trans, I had a friend at work (DCX Trans lab tech) rebuilt the Trans up to 440 standards plus the tricks. Had it apprised last year for 62K. I would call it a real nice #@ conditions car that one would not be afraid to drive and I do. Marc Car can be seen on allpapr.com.

dont take less than 22k in good shape if you think its a show quality car 40k and up

It depends on the condition. Is it maintained, restored, or a project? It could be worth a lot depending on its configuration. That is a desirable year to own.

for a base 318 worth 8,200-25,300

A 1969 RT 426 will go for $80,760. https://www.hagerty.com/valuationtools/HVT/VehicleSearch/Report?vc=1328814