Grand Prix, low beam quit, no power to the starter

Hey everyone, great info on here. Hopefully you can help... So we had the
same issue with the low beams not working, my daughter pulled the lamp
fuse out while car was running, it spitted and sputtered she quickly put it
back and it was still acting up so she shut it off, now we have a no crank
issue, no power to the starter I replaced 3 of the relays suggested on here,
Ing, #35 and the high beam one.  I have low beam lights now but still no
power the the starter.  Starter will crank if jumped across the solenoid but still
will not start even with the key in run.  The red light quits flashing on the
dash board acknowledging the key is in, but turned to start and the lights on
the dash dim or go out like it always has, but nothing.  All the fuses are good
no burnt ones, inside or out.