car wouldnt start for 10 min no power anywhere then it started up but now i have no lights in my dash above steering wheel

if it idles badly then its your throttle position sensor it did it to mine and i am changing it this weekend, if you dont replace it say bye bye for fuel economy

did you check your fuses under the dash on the passenger side and or the fuse box under the hood?

it could also be a problem with your security system (pass key II I believe in that model)- that would explain the 10 min. wait because that is how long you have to wait to try again if there is a problem- check to make sure your dash lights are not just dimmed out too.